Sometimes I wonder who is going to be the one? This happens ultimately once and I want to make it the right the first time. It’s not that I’m skeptical about what happens afterwards. It’s just that the effects would be almost irreversible. I’ve seen many of such cases where my mom and dad would point out every time we talk about building a family (no need to point specific ones.) Mom and dad have lived a happy life together so I would really listen to their advice especially when it comes to ‘selecting’ the family. Yes indeed. It’s not only about selecting her, but also the topic of incorporating the family. May Allah guide us.